monthly post about money

[bertine]

A poll, since I am trying to decide. I don't know which to do. One will get rid of debt (which I get stressed out about), one will make my life more comfortable in the future and the other will make my life more comfortable now (plus make my condo more valuable).

[Poll #825767]

Comments

Lonely September 18, 2006

[bride000.livejournal.com]

I just wanted to post about what you wrote. Those words could have come from me. I really know how you feel. I don't know a magic solution. It's kind of strange to think that someone has felt exactly what I've felt. I made a decision to find someone who wanted to be with me. We went through a multi year ordeal with certain legal residency issues but now things are getting better. We're learning how to be together. I think the first step if you really want someone in your life is to find someone who actually wants to commit.

When you said you didn't know how to fight & not end it I know that feeling exactly!!!! I've never had friendships or relationships where we had knock down drag out fights and continued the relationship. Usually that was a sign that things were going to end soon. I hope you're feeling better and I hope that you can work out things so they are pretty much how you want them.