Sometimes I wonder if I am even more confusing to boys than I think most of them are. I mean, it took *me* a couple years to sort of understand myself so why would I expect anyone I meet to do it.
a) to fill some deep seeded desire to figure out something more confusing than the London Underground station map? b) because it's more fun than surgery c) cuz house is on re-runs for the summer d) because the aliens to me to
I haven't tried to get into your brain (honestly, last couple times I tried to get into a woman's brain burned me badly), but from my vantage point at present, you don't seem confusing. A bit reserved, but not confusing.
I was sitting at meetings today a little bored and thinking about dating and all of a sudden it hit me that finding someone that I understand isn't going to happen because if I keep changing so will whoever I date. Ok, that still doesn't put into words the moment of clarity I had.
Honestly, nobody really 'understands' anyone. It's harder to notice with just friends because you don't get as close or as intimate as when you're in that kind of relationship. I mean, the closer you get to someone, the more you both get to see the crazy. I mean, uh. The how well you know each other's uniqueness. Yeah, that's it.
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a) to fill some deep seeded desire to figure out something more confusing than the London Underground station map?
b) because it's more fun than surgery
c) cuz house is on re-runs for the summer
d) because the aliens to me to
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♥
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This Saturday will mark my 11th anniversary with Jackie. We dated for 3 years before that. We're still figuring each other out.
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Yes.
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Then my work here is done.