bertine | I am a Holmboe until the day I die

http://www.salon.com/mwt/feature/2003/10/16/names/index.html

I decided a long time ago that I am not changing my last name. If the guy wants to HE can change it to mine.

The most important part of my name is Jep. As long as that doesn't change I will be just fine.

See, I could care less about my middle name. I mean, Margaret? I like it but I don't identify with it at all.

I think that couples should choose a new name to share when they get married. Unless one or the other has a cool name in which case all bets are off.

I could see that too.

as long as the guy agrees that my name is cool.

you should both change it to a made up name that is equal parts awsome and rad.

are you dissing my last name.

no, im just saying it would be fun!